Ladies, don’t do it

Today is my husband’s birthday and our wedding anniversary. Let me give you some advice, never marry on your significant other’s birthday. It is a trap that I did not see. Was it purposefully done, I don’t know. Haven’t figured that part out yet, but learn from me, don’t do it. What was I thinking?

Maybe, you can marry if it were on your own birthday and you wanted all of the shine. Just kidding. Not a good idea. Even if it were your own birthday, you would feel guilty in that the celebration is all about you. It is not to say that we don’t do anything special for our anniversary, but in my mind, it is really an afterthought and I feel guilty if I focus the attention on me while it is his birthday. The anniversary is left to the side and in the dark somewhere. Anyway, happy birthday husband, and happy anniversary too. See how it is left to the side. Don’t do it ladies, learn from me. Lol.

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See what I mean, feeling guilty. Need to separate these two days. And on top of all this, it is September 11th. What was I thinking?

Let us remember all those who lost their lives on this day. Stay blessed and safe!

Published by Sister Jackie

I am a wife, mother, grandmother and caretaker, and I also work outside of the home. Life has its struggles but I am not complaining. It could always be worse. Many lessons learned on my journey and many more to come--I am sure. God has a sense of humor and I have certainly learned how to laugh at myself. You should too-it is quite therapeutic. After all, some things we cannot change so why not enjoy a good laugh at our own expense. See you soon.

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